You could easily attain a second-best relationship now, but it wouldn’t fulfill your needs. If you are single, the Seven of Wands encourages you to maintain your stan- dards, even if that means you aren’t in a relationship for now. If the issue can be talked about and confronted honestly, it can be resolved. Be clear and honest about an issue that must be addressed. You are likely avoiding a difficult discussion to keep the peace, but remaining silent is only depleting your power. The Seven of Wands can compel you to communicate about an elephant in the room. Don’t compromise your standards to please people. This will show your new partner how to treat you. Follow your highest ideals and embody them. The Seven of Wands advises you to know your values when walking into a new partnership. The Seven of Wands in a Love Reading: New Relationship We admire these people because they have courage and take a stand and not engage in what is beneath their dignity. It is because they embrace compassion and know the sting of unfair rejection first hand. But, unfortunately, many adults engage in way too much negativity to gain the acceptance of their “tribe.” This manifests as gossip, group think, throwing others under the bus, racist/homophobic jokes, and rejection of people who appear “different.” We all like to believe we are good people, but chronically engaging in these sorts of behaviors can rob “good people” of their integrity and individualism.Įvery now and then you hear someone who shines with integrity say, “I’m not going to engage in this conversation.” Or “I actually really like her, she quite nice if you get to know her.” It isn’t because people with integrity believe they are better. We might like to think that only teenagers self-consciously care about what others think. In every human is an instinct and desire to be accepted and belong. This distinguishes him as an individual with personal strength and honor. The group below feels good sharing a brain, but the man on the hilltop is true to his own integrity. This mob doesn’t know who this guy thinks he is! How dare he stand apart from them, thumbing his nose at their conformity. Wearing two different shoes has made him a target by those who choose uniformity. If you look closely, the man is wearing two different kinds of shoes. He is “King of the Mountain,” and no one will dislodge him. The man at the top of the hill is in the best position. They are more interested in banding together to “fit in’” and targeting those that stand out. You can’t see the other individuals attacking him on the card. He is on the hilltop, above all the rest. The man on the card is defending his position on the high road. Do you stand up for what is right, good, and the just, within you?Īre you able to take the high road and not engage in slander and gossip? Can you rise above the lower human impulses for bickering, pettiness and the ego’s need to be “always right?”
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